Advice for Parents of Both Victims & Bullies

Advice for Parents about BullyingParents really need to get more involved in their children’s lives. That way they will be more sensitive to problems occurring. Promote honesty. Ask questions. Listen with an open mind and focus on understanding. Allow children to express how they feel, and treat a child’s feelings with respect. Set a good example by showing them a healthy temperament. Settle conflicts by talking things out peacefully. Congratulate or reward them when you see them using these positive skills to settle a difference. Teach them to identify “the problem”, and focus on the problem, “not” attacking “the person.” Tell them conflicts are a way of life, but violence doesn’t have to be. And finally, teaching them to take responsibility for their own actions will make for a healthier child, a healthier self-esteem, and there will be no need for any “bullies” or “victims” in the world.